Live query performance improvements (#11995)

## Addresses #11856 

Improve performance of the rendering of live query results by:
- rendering the table on a set interval instead of with each new result
- preventing redundant rerenders of various sorts



Partial run, with memory leak:
<img width="2552" alt="partial run with memory leak, after smaller
optimizations, before debouncing queryResults"
src="https://github.com/fleetdm/fleet/assets/61553566/5288bffb-6940-43da-9083-59adb4a25916">

Full run after debounce, no memory leak (10x improvement of max JS heap
size):
<img width="2559" alt="full run after debounce, no memory leak"
src="https://github.com/fleetdm/fleet/assets/61553566/be056610-e7a5-4289-a433-1070cf016e83">

**NOTE** - there are further optimizations to try on this page, and the
debounce interval can potentially be shortened to improve UX. In
experimenting with that, it's not immediately clear what a good balance
of UX / performance is. Since the customer seems keen to solve this, I
think we should merge as-is and send them a demo build to confirm this
fixes their problem, then iterate once they've confirmed it does.

# Checklist for submitter

If some of the following don't apply, delete the relevant line.

- [x] Changes file added for user-visible changes in `changes/`
- [x] Manual QA for all new/changed functionality

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Co-authored-by: Lucas Rodriguez <lucas@fleetdm.com>
Co-authored-by: Jacob Shandling <jacob@fleetdm.com>
Co-authored-by: Sarah Gillespie <sarah@fleetdm.com>

changes/11856-live-query-results-performance

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+- Improved the performance of live query results rendering to address usability issues when querying
+  tens of thousands of hosts.